Parent guide

Learning support, without the jargon

Start with the problem in front of you, then choose the right route: home support, school support, a focused guide, or tutoring where it genuinely helps.

Support ladder

A safe order to try

Work through these steps calmly. This is practical routing, not a diagnosis and not legal advice.

  • At home

    Start by noticing the pattern: when the difficulty shows up, which subject or skill is affected, and what has already helped. Use the child guides for homework, reading, resources, and everyday study-skills questions when those are the closest fit.

  • At school

    If the difficulty is persistent, affecting confidence, or showing up across lessons, speak to the class teacher or form tutor. Ask what the school has noticed, what has been tried, and what will be reviewed next.

  • SENCO or specialist

    If your child may need SEN/SEND or wider additional support, ask the school who coordinates support and what the next review step is. Processes and titles differ by UK nation — use the terminology table further down and avoid implying one country’s system applies everywhere.

  • Latimer tutor role

    A tutor can offer targeted practice, clearer explanations, structure, and confidence where the need is academic or routine-based. Tutoring should sit alongside school or official support where those routes are needed — not as a replacement for them.

  • When to escalate

    Escalate towards official or local guidance, the Local Offer where that applies (England), or specialist advice if progress stays limited, school support is unclear, disability or SEND duties may be engaged, or a formal plan or assessment is being considered.

Parent script

What to ask school

Situation

You are worried your child needs more learning support and you want to contact school without sounding confrontational.

Try saying

I’ve noticed [specific pattern] at home. Have you seen the same thing in class? What support has been tried so far? Is there a plan for what happens next, who is responsible, and when we will review progress? Should we involve the SENCO or another specialist?

Why it helps

Clear questions turn worry into a practical conversation and make it easier for staff to explain what already exists and what should happen next.

Learning support wording changes across the UK

Use this table so England-only phrases are not mistaken for UK-wide rules.

UK nation labels, common terms, first routes to ask about, and safer wording for this hub.

UK areaCommon wording to checkFirst route to ask aboutSafe wording for this page

England

SEN support, SEND, SENCO, EHC plan, Local Offer

Class teacher or SENCO first; local authority route where needed

Say England when discussing SEN support, EHC plans, SENCO, or Local Offer.

Scotland

Additional support needs; additional support for learning

School and local authority support routes

Do not call Scotland’s system SEND by default.

Wales

Additional learning needs (ALN), individual development plan (IDP)

School or local authority ALN route

Use ALN and IDP when discussing Wales.

Northern Ireland

Special educational needs (SEN), SENCO, Education Authority

School SENCO and Education Authority where needed

Say Northern Ireland when describing SEN processes.

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Does my child need a tutor?

Help parents decide whether tutoring is the right next step, what to try first, and how to choose safely if tutoring is appropriate.

Support and clarity

Frequently asked questions

Straight answers to the questions people ask most often.

What does learning support mean for parents?

On this page it means extra help a school-age child may need to learn, practise, organise, read, complete homework, build confidence, or access support at school. It is not about the NHS Learning Support Fund, adult learner funding, or learning-support-assistant jobs.

Is learning support the same as SEN or SEND support?

Not always. In England, SEN/SEND support is an important school and statutory route for some children. Day-to-day “learning support” can also mean homework routines, reading practice, study skills, useful resources, or tutoring — depending on the situation. Wording and processes differ across the UK, so treat nation-specific terms carefully.

Who should I speak to first if I am worried?

Start with the class teacher or form tutor for a proportionate, practical conversation. If difficulties are persistent, affect confidence, or show up across subjects, ask who coordinates support at school (often called a SENCO in England, with different titles and routes elsewhere) and what the next review step is.

Does my child need a diagnosis before school can help?

Schools can often discuss observed needs and plan next steps before any formal diagnosis, but what is possible — and what it is called — depends on the UK nation and the situation. If you need formal processes, rights, or provision disputes resolved, use official guidance or specialist advice rather than this hub alone.

When should I consider a tutor?

Tutoring can help when there is a clear academic or routine goal (practice, explanation, structure, confidence) and you want targeted support alongside school. It is not a diagnosis, a replacement for school duties where those apply, or a shortcut to formal access arrangements.

Which guide should I read next?

Use the Keep exploring cards on this page for homework help, educational resources, dyslexia-aware tutoring, reading at home and home-school tutoring — pick the card that matches the problem in front of you today.

Sources and references

Sources and references

Official guidance

Peer-reviewed research

Other sources