Support ladder
Choose your next step
Work through the ladder calmly. None of this is a diagnosis of your child — it is a practical way to choose the right type of help first.
Use home support when things look short-term, routine-heavy or like a resource issue: sleep, organisation, reading for pleasure, or a busy patch at school. Small changes and a lighter timetable sometimes help more than an extra paid hour.
Use a school or teacher conversation when the gap is unclear, work is misunderstood, or difficulty has persisted across several topics. Teachers can explain what the work is practising and what already exists in class.
Consider wider specialist or pastoral support if difficulties span many areas, affect wellbeing, or have lasted a long time. Speak with the people who know your child in school or your GP route as appropriate. Keep wording here general — this page is not statutory SEND advice.
A subject tutor fits when there is a clear subject, stage or exam goal, and you want targeted practice, feedback and confidence work on that goal.
Escalate if problems persist across subjects, sleep or mood are significantly affected, or school shares wider concerns. Use normal safeguarding routes if you fear a child is at risk.