Before the meeting: organise six things
The current plan and previous review
Keep the latest final EHC plan, its appendices, the last review report and any later decision or amendment letters together. Mark wording that seems out of date. Use the final plan as your starting point, rather than an old draft.
Your child’s views
Ask what is going well, what is hard, which support helps and what they would like to change. Keep their words distinct from your interpretation. Agree with the organiser how they can contribute: attending part of the meeting, a short recording, pictures or a trusted adult sharing their views may be useful options.
Progress towards outcomes
For each relevant outcome, note the starting point, what your child can now do and the help still needed. Bring dated work, school reports or observations that show this. Include communication, participation and independence where relevant, as well as attainment.
Provision actually received
Compare the support in the plan with what has happened. Record missed or changed provision, dates and its impact. Separate “the support happened but did not help enough” from “the support did not happen”: they require different questions.
New needs and professional advice
Bring relevant new reports and describe changes since the last review. Ask what advice the school and local authority are seeking and whether key professionals have contributed. List unanswered questions rather than trying to diagnose the difficulty yourself.
Your priorities and meeting arrangements
Send a concise written contribution in advance and keep a copy. Ask when contributions are needed so they can be circulated with the papers. Tell the organiser about access needs, an interpreter or someone you wish to bring to help with notes. Put your most important requested changes first.

